a friendly tip: if you feel the urge to self harm get an ice cube and hold it in your hand for a while. it relieves the compulsion in a less destructive way. therapists have used this with their patients and i have tried it myself it works pretty well
Okay wow this is now my favourite post on Tumblr. Signal boost into infinity.
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“What if all women were bigger and stronger than you? And thought they were smarter? What if women were the ones who started wars? What if too many of your friends had been raped by women wielding giant dildos and no K-Y Jelly? What if the state trooper who pulled you over on the New Jersey Turnpike was a woman and carried a gun? What if the ability to menstruate was the prerequisite for most high-paying jobs? What if your attractiveness to women depended on the size of your penis? What if every time women saw you they’d hoot and make jerking motions with their hands? What if women were always making jokes about how ugly penises are and how bad sperm tastes? What if you had to explain what’s wrong with your car to big sweaty women with greasy hands who stared at your crotch in a garage where you are surrounded by posters of naked men with hard-ons? What if men’s magazines featured cover photos of 14-year-old boys with socks tucked into the front of their jeans and articles like: “How to tell if your wife is unfaithful” or “What your doctor won’t tell you about your prostate” or “The truth about impotence”? What if the doctor who examined your prostate was a woman and called you “Honey”? What if you had to inhale your boss’ stale cigar breath as she insisted that sleeping with her was part of the job? What if you couldn’t get away because the company dress code required you wear shoes designed to keep you from running? And what if after all that women still wanted you to love them?”—For the Men Who Still Don’t Get It by Carol Diehl (via coralfershoral)
Okay so lately I’ve been watching something play out on my dash, and I want to get the word out there so people can help. I’ve already submitted a report to tumblr abuse staff, but these things work better when they have more than one person bringing it to…
warning; this is mostly for myself, and i don’t know if anyone elsefeels the same about the politically correct part at all, as this is for myself mostly.
I think they can be stupid, yes. They can be hateful, very much so (seen it in action). But how people respond to them is fucking stupid. They act like “this SJW is being ignorant so I must be a bitch and assume all people who support similar shit (e.g. political correct-ness*—aka more true to ‘social justice’) must be asses who need who hate everyone and everything, too”. STOP
Calling somebody out on their bullshit? Awesome, yes do it. Explain how their bigotry is rude and ignorant. Do it, I believe in you. But acting as if someone who is fonder to being politically correct, supporting and practicing empathy and sensitivity (aka the people who aren’t fucking crazy) are just confused, hateful, or dumb is a stretch.
i don’t even know where im going with this anymore, too busy petting my cat soooo
i guess if anyone would like to talk to me about this, send an ask. i would like to see how you thinkholy shit that sounded meanyour opinion on the matter there we go
btw; don’t be a condescending bitch pls, because honestly i’ve dealt with ppl over the interwebs like that…. not pleasant to talk to
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